So I was trying to make up my mind if I wanted to write a post about this or not. On this day (Valentines Day),it is a lot of people that have mixed feelings about it. Whether your married or in a relationship; this day may or may not be special for you. If you are a hopeless romantic and the love is still strong in the relationship then this day is one of the many special days that you can show your partner how much they mean to you. Men say you should show it everyday and that is true (or a way to not spend money). For women this day is still special to them and there isn’t any way around it (LOL), unless they say they don’t care.
For those like me who don’t have a Valentines; its not the end of the world. No need to look sad or be upset. It doesn’t mean that you are not loved and appreciated. Some people who are in relationships aren’t happy and are just in it just to be in one to feel special because they don’t want to be alone. Then you have those that just use people just to have a Valentine and get gifts and free meals. Valentines is a national holiday to make money and profit. It can make you feel like if you don’t have one then you can’t enjoy the perks.
You can take yourself out to a movie or go get take out or buy yourself a bottle of wine. You could even take it up a notch and go to a spa, go shopping or doing something that brings joy and pleasure to your life and love yourself because no one else will treat you the way you want to be treated. If you can’t love yourself then how can anyone else love you right.
So many people play mind games these days, you just don’t know what to expect in these non traditional relationships. If you know what you want out of someone then stay single until you get what you want. Marriages aren’t for everyone and doesn’t happen as soon as some would want but get to know you and what you are willing to tolerate or deal with and you may have to go through a lot of heartaches,confusion and trails until that perfect match comes. Just focus on you and your goals that you want to accomplished for 2017 because that is more important if you are single or not. I am happy I am single because only I can give myself the love I need and I don’t have to worry about the headache or anyone else’s problems or baggage. This day can be a slap in the face but you never know what people are going through in their relationships.